This Saturday, we were privileged at SIB to listen to the message by Pastor Chew on “Arrogance and foolishness”.
The text was 1 Samuel 25:1-34, which was the account of David’s encounter with Nabal and his wife Abigail. In a time when David was still living as an outcast with a band of about 600 men, he once sent some men to humbly ask a rich landowner named Nabal for some provisions during a festive time. However, Nabal, a mean and surly man rejected David’s men completely and even called him a rebel and an outlaw. When David heard of this, he was so furious that he and his men set out to kill Nabal and every male that belonged to him. However, Nabal’s servants quickly approached his wife Abigail who wasted no time in quickly sending choice food to David and his men. Then she herself went out to meet David, and persuade him to turn from killing Nabal. Basically, the story is about 3 main characters, David, Nabal and Abigail, about Abigail standing in the gap between and angry David and a foolish husband. There is one lesson to learn from each of these characters.
Now one question that Pastor Chew had always pondered was “how was it possible that with all the wisdom God gave Solomon, that he was able to degenerate into the condition he was in when he wrote Ecclesiastes, declaring that everything was meaningless” Pastor discussed this with LT Jeyachandran, and LT explained that wisdom has two components, an intellectual component and a moral component. Solomon had the intellectual component of wisdom, being able to build great things and undertake grand projects, but he was morally deficient. Many clever people are very foolish, because morally, they can’t stand the test.
The bible describes Nabal and surly and mean – harsh, evil, dishonest, bad tempered. Walter Brueggemann wrote of Nabal that his possessions preceded his person. Life was only determined by his property. We are told of his riches before his name. His identity was caught up in what he owned.
His name means fool, and his wife, who would know him better than anyone, described him the same.
Nabal was a man who despised people, looking down upon people who came to ask him for help because of his riches. Even today, there are rich, arrogant people who will insult you before they help you. The anointed king of Israel had praised him, and told him how he protected his sheep. And he had come on a good day, a festive day. However, Nabal’s reaction was hurting, saying that he didn’t know David. He had a very bad attitude which offends God.
Nabal’s servants who came to Abigail showed their intense disdain for him, calling him a wicked man who would not listen to anyone. The first lesson is this: No matter how successful you are, don’t be arrogant! If you are arrogant, you do so at your own peril.
Now, looking at the second character in the story, we see the reaction of David. The Bible is completely honest and shows up both the positive and negative side of God’s heroes. David and 400 of his men had gone up to kill Nabal and this was also wrong. Even it you are angry, it does not give you the right to seek revenge. The 2nd principle is this: “Don’t’ be vengeful no matter how provoked you are.” Romans 12:17-21 reads:- Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. On the contrary: “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.” Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.
We are not to take revenge but live at peace, leaving room for God’s road. We are to take the higher road, not stooping down to the level of those who persecute us. This story is actually a perfect example of the passage. David did not take revenge on Nabal, and Nabal instead met his judgment from God, dying not many days later. Later, in a similar situation, David’s own son, Absalom rebelled against him, and he too, died, although David would not lift up one hand against his own son and in fact ordered his men to be gentle with Abdsalom for David’s sake.
Now, moving on to the third character, we see a real unsung heroine of the Bible – Abigail. If David had killed Nabal, he would have been guilty of murder. Later, David actually sinned by organizing the murder of Uriah and suffered terrible consequences, but at this stage he had not even been crowned king. The repercussions of his sin would have been enormous.
Abigail personified everything about wisdom, both intellectually and morally. In verse 18, we read how Abigail lost no time once she heard the news, and sent her servants ahead with gift for David. While some people might be blur, Abigail understood the emergency and knew what she had to do. She responded, not reacted. She had good people skills, bringing gifts first, and she was willing to substitute herself for Nabal’s sin. She fell at David’s feet and cried “Upon me, my Lord, upon me let this iniquity be”. How totally Christ-like. Although she was innocent, Abigail was set to take the blame herself alone.
Only 3 persons in the Old Testament model the substitute sacrifice personified by Jesus Christ, an innocent person offering to take the place of a guilty person. Besides Abigail, there is Judah, who offered to take the place of Benjamin when the stolen cup was found on him and Moses, who offered to take the place of the Israelites when God was about to destroy them completely because of their idolatry.
Abigail came as mediator between David and Nabal. The
church of Christ needs more Abigails to rise up, women who are wise, sacrificial and self-controlled. In this event, Abigail’s status was lifted up from housewife to mediator to prophetess. She prophesied that David would have a lasting dynasty, that his life would be secure even though he was being pursued by Saul, and he would be appointed as ruler over Israel, and later all these came true. Abigail’s words that “David’s life would be bound securely in the bundle of the living by the Lord” is especially precious. The bundle of the living signified something held precious by the Lord.
The third and final principle is this:- No matter how pressured you are, never stop becoming Christ-like. The more Christ-like we are, the more God will trust us, and the more He will reveal to us . Later, after Nabal died, David sent for Abigail to be his wife, and from the wife of a surly fool, she now became a wife of the future King.
The summary in conclusion for us:-
No matter how successful we are, don’t be arrogant
No matter how provoked we are, don’t be vengeful
No matter how pressured we are, don’t stop being Christ-like
God bless,
Jason